That is the exact spot my parents found a stray kitten. Nice little addition to the family, but would have been a terrible addition to the pavement had she not been very vocal OTL
No joke, the place where that cat is resting in this picture is called a ādead cat holeā itās an automotive term. Ā Donāt believe me, look it up.
This is also where I found a stray cat, she was up in there during a thunderstorm and I begged my dad to let me being her inside and thatās the story of how I got my first cat.
Please donāt skip over this without reading it and making a mental note. Even if you donāt have a car, tell your parents or whoever, and make sure to do this. You think thatāll never happen but thatās what everyone thought who had this happen and didnāt check, and that poor cold cat met with a terribly sad end.
this is the purest video you will see all day, it includes not only practical advice on how to make cats feel comfortable but also:
the most patient and long suffering clawdia
bob ross, but a vetĀ
squish the cat
squish the cat, but with a towel
absolute unit mr. pirate
a little chubby but quite beautiful
please watch this immediately
Squish! That! Cat!
I considered myself to be well versed on cats/communicating with cats. Iāve lived with at least two cats my whole life, and currently live with two very different cats who I love. Apparently most cats are shoulder cats? My cat Mason has always been very nervous about going up on peopleās shoulders, so I thought Iād try theĀ āshoulder catā technique.
I had to help him up on my shoulders because heās never done it himself before. But once I got him up there I squished him, he started purring like nobodyās business. I carried him around our entire apartment, up and down staircases, and he was so happy. He didnāt try to leave once! When I put him down he head butted me and meowed and was super affectionate. And of course I gave him a treat.
TLDR- Even if you live with cats and think you understand cats, please watch this video.Ā
other tips for new cat owners / people who may get cats soon:
no, getting a grown cat wonāt be boring / less cute! theyāll become just as attached to you as a kitten. get a cat that speaks to you (literally or figuratively, maybe you want a cat thatās chatty). older cats will be so appreciative to have a home.Ā people get rid of their cats for all kinds of unfair reasons. just the ones iāve seen on the craigslist listings in the last 5 minutes:Ā āi am just more of a dog person (7mo old kitten)ā,Ā āwe hoped she would get over her kittenish behavior, she has not (2yr old cat)ā,Ā āi need to get rid of my cat before my baby is born (3yr old cat)ā. you can totally pick up a beautiful, loving, grown up kitty who will be needing some comfort after getting dumped. just look at this girl.
(taken off craigslist) she would be more than happy to live her cat life with you. is she not cute? she is. she is cute. so, ultimately, adopt whatever cat you like, but donāt rule out older cats!
nextly: no no, do NOT declaw your cat. DONāT DO IT. IāM TELLIN YA. itās a deeply painful procedure, actually removing the entire first knuckle, not JUST the nail. it causes long-term and potentially permanent pain in the cat, and can lead to nasty infections, behavioral problems, and helplessness if they ever find themselves outside and in need of protection or climbing abilities. ābut i donāt want my cat to scratch me / my kid / my furniture!ā okay, i feel you, but there are other, cheaper, less inhumane options. my favorite of which are claw caps.
you gently press on your catās foot (to unsheath their claws), and place the soft cap onto their claw using the glue thatās included in any soft paw kit you get. it might take some getting used to on the catās part, but it should under no circumstances be painful, and when the kittyās claws grow, the cap just kinda falls off, and youāll put another one on. you can also file or clip their nails down! if youāre too nervous or clumsy to do it, your vet will usually do it for a small fee, or a groomer can take care of it. Personally, I just let my catsā claws hang out and accept the pokes when they knead on me, since i donāt have any little babies or expensive upholstery in my home.Ā
No, cats ainātĀ ālow maintenanceā. This is a living, social creature, not a chiapet. Especially if youāre raising them from kittenhood, they need a lot of attention and resources. cuddles, playtime, training, health care, feeding, cleaning up their facilities. you get a pet to interact with, not to buy and leave it be! a cat that you donāt socialize is going to be very moody and sad. get a pet if you plan to invest the time and energy they need- if not, maybe we can come back to that cactus idea?Ā
Cats need meat. I repeat, cats cannot survive without meat. Dogs need meat too- but cats are incapable of creating taurine in their own, and where do you find taurine? meat! hallelujah!!Ā Feeding cats a vegan or vegetarian diet is a slow form of starvation and animal abuse. If youāre not comfortable feeding an animal meat, please do not adopt a carnivore. There are plenty of vegetarian mammals that you would be much better suited owning, but do not abuse your cats just because of your own feelings about protein.Ā Without enough taurine in a catās diet, severe health problems will follow, like blindness, weak and decaying teeth, weak heart, and digestive issues. This is terrible. This objectively sucks. So pretty please give your cat a proper diet!
Itās way way safer to have an indoor cat. I donāt need you to tell me that you want your cat to be with you for many years,Ā ācause I already know you do. Outdoor cats are exposed to wild animals, animal abusers, poisonous substances, cars, harsh weather, kidnapping, and diseases. Cats like rolling around in grass and grabbing birds from trees, and thatās great, but having an outdoor cat makes for a steep decrease in their estimated lifespan. The average lifespan of an indoor cat is 16.8 years, whereas outdoor cats average out to a hard-hitting 5.6. Ouch.Ā So itās definitely safer to keep a cat indoors! If youāre adopting a young kitten, it wonāt be hard, since they wonāt be expecting outdoor time already. If youāre still really into that whole grass idea, you should totally grow some indoor grass for your cat to chill in.Ā
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thatās everything i can think of for the moment, but please donāt be afraid to do your own research on animal care. there are tons of resources out there, and if you have a good vet, theyāll answer any questions you have!Ā
thank you for readinā about cat care. as a reward, iām adding a picture of toby as a baby. enjoy.