Look at all these purples. No two are the same, even the similar ones are a little different from each other. That’s far more realistic then painting everyone with the same brush. You don’t gotta be the “darkest purple” to be a “”better”” asexual. Just be you, and you’re doing it right. There’s no hierarchy, no exact shade you have to match. All parts of the ace-spectrum are good. I’m happy you are here with all the complex details that make you you. – Rose